“What’s in it for me?” or “What do I stand to gain?” could be both the voiced or unvoiced reason/ motivation that drives our decision/choice making at different stages of our life’s circumstances. It is a normal occurrence for us especially as women to gravitate towards anything that will be most beneficial to us materially and financially. A friend attempted to introduce a single lady to an unmarried Christian man but was shocked when the lady’s first question was “What has he got”? When probed, she listed all the things including a good job, a good house, a good car and lots of money. She further stressed that she wanted a Boaz. (Do read the book of Ruth)
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